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Make Jesus the Center of Every Family Celebration

Recently, I posted a review of Kathy Howard’s book, HEIRLOOM: Living and Leaving a Legacy of Faith. I’m delighted to have Kathy guest post for us today about how we can make Jesus the Center of Every Family Celebration. Thank you for sharing with us, Kathy.

Make Jesus the Center of Every Celebration

by Kathy Howard

A few years ago, while speaking at a ladies’ Christmas event, something unexpected happened. I had planned to read portions of the Christmas story from Matthew and Luke. But as I began to read from my open Bible, I discovered I did not need it. The words flowed from memory – KJV style.

And Joseph also went up from Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth, into Judaea, unto the city of David, which is called Bethlehem; (because he was of the house and lineage of David:) To be taxed with Mary his espoused wife, being great with child. And so it was, that, while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered.  Luke 2:4-5 KJV

My parents built a legacy of faith for me.

But I’ve never purposefully worked to memorize those sections of Scripture. The passages were imbedded in my heart simply because my father read them to our family every Christmas Eve. It was part of our family tradition. My dad desired to keep our hearts and minds on the real meaning of Christmas. To keep Jesus at the center. He felt the same way about Easter, Thanksgiving, and every other holiday. While he enjoyed the cultural aspects of these celebrations, he always honored God first and encouraged us to do the same.

My husband and I worked to pass the legacy to our children.

As our own children grew, my husband and I worked to carry on that legacy. For instance, when our kids were old enough to understand, I began baking a birthday cake for Jesus on Christmas Eve. We even had candles and sang “Happy Birthday.” It was a simple, but effective way to help our children remember why we celebrate Christmas. Like the magi, we worshipped Jesus.

And when they were come into the house, they saw the young child with Mary his mother, and fell down, and worshipped him: and when they had opened their treasures, they presented unto him gifts; gold, and frankincense and myrrh. Matthew 2:11 KJV

Birthday cake with iced words: Happy Birthday Jesus.
Make Jesus the Center of Every Celebration.

Jesus is always the reason to celebrate.

Jesus is also the reason for all the other celebrations that fill Scripture. On one level, the feasts in the Old Testament like Passover and the Feast of Weeks celebrate God’s physical provision and miraculous deliverance. But ultimately, they all point to the coming Savior and His provision of eternal life. Jesus also established another celebration. Until He returns, believers will regularly partake of the Lord’s Supper to remember His death and celebrate His resurrection.

Purposefully point our families to Jesus.

As each holiday and family celebration approaches, find creative ways to keep Jesus central. For instance, for Christmas, make a birthday cake and sing “Happy Birthday” to Jesus. For Thanksgiving, print psalms that express gratitude to God and ask different family members to take turns reading them at the dinner table.

As our families enjoy holidays and other special events, let’s intentionally point them to Jesus. Let’s make Him the center of our days and the center of our families. Whatever else we may celebrate, let’s acknowledge Jesus first. He gives us every reason to celebrate. Jesus is every reason to celebrate.

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Kathy Howard

Kathy Howard is a treasure hunter. She hunts for the creamiest chocolate, richest coffee, and cherished stories of faith. She also digs deep into Scripture, mining God’s eternal truths. Kathy has a Masters in Christian Education and has taught the Bible for more than 30 years in a wide variety of venues. Kathy is the author of 11 books, including “Heirloom: Living and Leaving a Legacy of Faith” and the “meaty” devotional series “Deep Rooted.” Kathy and her husband live in north Texas. They have three married children, six grandchildren, and two accidental dogs. Find free discipleship resources at www.KathyHoward.org.

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  • J.D. Wininger

    Oh, how I love this post Ms. Sally. Your words brought back to wonderful memories that have brightened my day today. The first was of my adopting mama singing “Happy Birthday dear Jesus…” as she was busily preparing pies, etc. for CHRISTmas dinner in our home. This sweet little woman from MA lived her live with so much joy; it was infectious to her children. The other was the many years as an adult, we observed the Italian tradition of the Feast of the Seven Fishes with our extended family in the Chicago area where my wife grew up. Near midnight on CHRISTmas eve, Ms. Mary (the matriarch of the Calabria family) would bring out the birthday cake and we would all gather around the large table and sing Happy Birthday to our Lord and Savior. I can remember how the children’s eyes would grow large looking at the beautiful cake, and how the adults would reflect upon this family tradition. Such wonderful memories. Thank you for carrying this forward in your family Mr. & Mrs. Matheny. God’s blessings.

    • Sally Matheny

      Hi, J.D.,
      Kathy Howard, the author of the Heirloom book I recently reviewed, wrote this sweet post.
      However, our family also has celebrated the birth of Christ each year with a birthday cake. I include a devotion with ours. The kids watch me ice a chocolate cake with white icing and we talk about Jesus covering our sins making us white as snow.
      Also, the red candles represent the blood of Christ and the flames remind us to shine His light into the world. And, fresh evergreen branches around the cake plate remind us of the new and everlasting life Christ gives us.
      Usually, we have different family members read scriptures that go along with the symbols.
      J.D., your family traditions sound wonderful. I need to look up the Feast of the Seven Fishes!

  • Katherine Pasour

    Kathy and Sally, Thank you for sharing this reminder of the reason we celebrate Christmas. “Jesus is always a reason to celebrate.” We all know that–but sometimes we get lost in the hustle and bustle and commercialism of the season. Although I use my NIV for most of my Bible study, I concur with you there is nothing more beautiful than the KJV of the Christmas story.